The kids are now off to school, Matt is doing great in his new job and loves the people, and I've unpacked what we have brought with us to Dublin (turns out not much.)
So now what??
That is the question that has been weighing on me the last few days. I mean, I've done this. I've lived abroad, I've traveled extensively, I have even worked overseas. I should be ready and up for anything and planning all these "dream trips" we've been talking about taking. Somehow, though, this is different. I'm here now as a "spouse." One without a working permit. And, for now anyway, one without her own bank account, social life or car. I'm feeling a little bit of a loss of independence and not really knowing how to go about my life here. This whole time, planning for the move has been about everything else. I've been focused on getting the kids settled and into a good place, trying to ensure their transition goes as smooth as possible. I've been taking care of all the details related to our home front: setting up the house, trying to "nest" a bit so we all can feel at home, and closing things up in Mill Valley for a while. I didn't really do much thinking about what this experience would be about for me personally.
I know ... "There's a world out there to explore!" I will do that... but feel I have had the rug taken out from under my size 9 1/2 feet. So I have to set some new goals ... a revised New Year's Resolutions list. That will be my next post ...
Some quick observations I have so far ...
1) The eggs here are amazingly good ... not sure why.
2) The dryers suck and the washers take forever (however, I'm lucky we have both at least!!)
3) People here are extremely warm and friendly
4) The weather is not always bad... in fact, we see a lot of sun, its just that five minutes later it may be raining. Can't count on anything.
5) There is a castle in almost every town. Amazing!
6) Still don't like the taste of Guinness
Little known fact, Irish get their red hair from their Viking roots. So, does that mean that my kids do too?? I guess somewhere, there was Viking in our roots... and its come out in our kids. I'll just look at the positive and say they are born to explore!
That's it for now. Busy busy ... I have to work on my "revised" resolutions and set up a plan to get them done.
Posted by Liz